So there is this kid in my complex, who, bless his heart, is just super-socially awkward (Family: Think Patrick W-esque). He tries really hard to be "cool," but there is just something about him that gives off the "super weird-- avoid if possible" vibe.
Well, I seem to have caught his eye. From the time I moved in, he made it a point to come and talk to me at every function, ward prayer, church, activities FHE, etc. I always try to be polite, and so I always talk to him, but I quickly realized that he never remembered anything we ever talked about. This seems pretty odd to me, since I have obviously caught his attention enough for him to seek me out at each function. Every conversation (at least once a week since May) we have goes something like this.
B: "Oh hey ----"
----: "Hey, how's it going?
B: "Good. How are things for you?"
....(Awhile later)---"So, are you still in school?"
B: "No, I actually graduated about a year ago"
---: "Oh really?! That's cool. So, where do you work?"
B: "Oh at UW, just down the street.."
The conversation usually continues on about whether or not I like it, usually has a "So which apartment to you live in again?" thrown in there and other things that we talk about EVERYTIME.
Last week, he sat next to me and started the usual conversation with me. After about 35 minutes (no joke) with him staring at my "smartness" aka: not my face, he said, "So, your name is stephanie, right?"
"Ummm.... Not quite." Luckily, it was about this time that Matt came over, grabbed my hand and started to talking to me. The kid left shortly after.
Well, yesterday, he came and sat next to me in Sunday School. After talking to me througout the duration of class, he said, "well, we should hang out before you go out of town." I hate when guys say this, do they really want to hang out or do they want to go out on a date? I hesitantly said ok, but warned him that I was super busy at work and would probably be working late. He then assured me we could go for just a 20 minutes and get ice cream. At this point, I started to panic. He asked me if my number was in the roster, to which i lied and said yes (They STILL haven't put out a new spring/summer directory) and tried to leave. He then said, "well, just in case, can I get your number?"
I was very surprised that he was doing this. I think he is about the only person in the ward who doesn't seem to realize that I am dating someone (who also happens to be in the ward). I know I should have said, "Well, I don't think my bf would like it if I gave you my number," but like i said, I was taken back and panicked, plus, he didn't make it clear if it was a date or not. At that point my other friend came up and said she needed my number. I laughed and said, "Oh wow, everyone wants my number right now," as I jerked my head in the kid's direction hoping she would get the point and rescue me, but she didn't, so then I just said, "Oh man, we have to go to relief society!" and then followed the example of Joseph in Egypt (it was right after Sunday School) and ran away.
I feel kind of bad, but i didn't really know what else to do. I guess it didn't phase the kid (or hurt his feelings) too much though because he came and followed me around at ward prayer that night.